Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Visiting Cancun, Mexico



We have decided to visit Cancun this time and gave up Florida trip. The swine flu has impacted Mexican tourism heavily. The hotels closed for 5 weeks and currently only have 50% capacity filled. The weather is hot there and the hurricane season hasn't started yet. We signed up for a 7-days trip living in Blue Bay Grand Esmeralda Hotel of Riviera Maya.
We went to Chichen Itza (not chicken pizza which the tour guy commented), one of the seven wonders in the world. It's an overwhelming architecture which was built ~400 years AD. The Mayan intelligence to build the structure is well respected. It's a sacred city where mysterious pyramid of Kukulcan (kukul=feather; can=snake) has 91 steps. During March 21 and Sept 21, we can see the formation of snake shadow on the wall of Kukulcan. Snake is a myth God in Mayan believe. The structure was built where they aligned the sun's position, some other hints on the structure also suggests that they might already know a year with 365 days and has their own calender system. They also used their own way to track the mathematics symbols and calculation. We walked through the sacred path of the ancient Mayan priets and experienced the sound and acoustic effect of the pyramid. We stood at the center of the building with opening at the top, we clapped and the echo transmitting to the entire field. we're told that this is how the information was transmitted from high hierachy to low hierachy people. There is a ball court next to the pyramid. It was one of the games impossible to be played by normal human being. The ball is ~6lbs in weight and players only used hip and a bat to bounce the ball to the ring which is 20 feet high. The Mayans needs god superpower energy to play the game. The wierd part is the winning team would be sacrificed to the god. The losing team would chop the winning teams' heads. It's believed to be a priviledge and the players would be inherented within the same family. The damage done to the building was pretty massive. Many buildings have been destroyed quite badly, like the temple and astronomical building. The damage was done by the intrusion of Spanish to Mayan land and the fact that Catholics didn't like "Snake" related believes in the Mayan buildings. Also only a few years ago the government banned visitor to climb up to the pyramid. It is a good thing to preserve the ruin.
My knowledge about Mayan has been broadened after visiting Tulum. It's another historical ruin from Mayan. It's located on top of a cliff overlooking Caribbean Sea. It was an astronomical center as well as a very important seaport. The city was built few hundred years after Chichen Itza so the architecture design was improved. However, Mayan built this city in a very fast manner so design was simple. The only ruins remained are temple and the dwellings for king and rich people (i.e. dentist). Dentist was famous there to implant black stone onto rich people tooth. There is one structure where its hole would line up the Sun and the Mars together in every 52 years and line up the Sun in every year. The beach next to the ruin was very pretty. Over half of the visitors there would jump into the water for a break of blazing sun. The sun was brutal that morning and luckily we brought an umbrella. After walking out from the exit towards the van, there was a performance where performers flipped upside down circling a blue pole while music was playing. There was a legend saying that the ceremony was meant to convey message to the god for praying for rainfalls on the crops.
We went on to a snockeling adventure at Ya kul (Ya=fish; kul=nest) in Xel Ha city. It's found to be the largest natural aquarium famous for its excellent snockel and crystal water. The snockeling started on the soft water then moved to the sea water. We saw variety of colorful fish in the soft water. We didn't go to the sea water where the reef is located. I was quite sea-sicked by the high tide current and Sze Min was not comfortable to get near the deep ocean. We have fun browsing through the stones and cliff where fish is mostly hidden. After 2 hours of snockeling, I couldn't manage to control my sea-sickness and threw up near the drop off area. A swamp of fish surfaced and ate the jerking stuff I provided. Sze Min ended up taking pictures on the fish :) Both of us had a terrible sun-burn.
On the way home to the hotel, we have little fun conversation with the tour guy Azmanzur while we exchanged information about Spanish and Chinese. He is learning many different languages (chinese, french, japanese and more) in order to get a better paid job as a tour guide. This is a different world as people are working harder to get a better paid.
The food and drinks are all inclusive in the hotel. we have a blast just by trying out all sort of cocktails. The favorite drinks we both like are pinot colada and coco-loco. The wine is not really good here as it's free and they are either very dry or sour. Afterall, we found the food is awesome and the people around here are friendly. There are buffet style Breakfast, lunch and dinner served in Festival restaurant. The theme changed every day and we have had variety of selections. There are also Mexican, Italian, French, seafood and Oriental restaurants serving la-carte dishes. On the last day, both Sze Min and I have a lobster french cruisine. It's served on one whole piece cooked with wine. Since Sze Min is a vegetarian, I have her lobster portion for the dinner. It was too good! The salsa in the Mexican restauramt was the best and we were there twice. Italian food was ok only.
During the night, there are performances like traditional Mexican dances, karaoke, belly dances and etc. we spent half an hour a few days by watching the show while sipping the coco-loco :-)
During the stay, I truly enjoyed the slow pace living style while I still have internet access. Llying on the beach front, bracing the breezing air, looking up the coconut trees, sipping some cocktails, reading a book, taking a nap; I am sure I can live there for the rest of my life. Simple life is what I pursue and hope to have family around me. This short break is totally relaxing and well worth.

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Revisit experience on stage

It has been 18 years since I last performed on stage. I have already forgotten the excitement and uneasiness each time I have to do that when I was young. This time I actually did it at 31 yo. It is a mix of excitement, proud and nervousness inside me. Revisitting such an experience at different level in my life was utterly brilliant and refreshing. The performance was played by a group of guitar class students and we played five classical songs together. I am happy with the play and we were all having fun on the stage. We just played as a regular practice session. The last song was played in fullness as everybody knew it was a last song. I actually enjoyed the last piece of music. In the end the audience was delighted and giving a loud applaud. The experience was again unforgettable and sweet. I don't see myself not to do it again...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j8SnW__3OrM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RwlK7MC-ElA

-Fui

Friday, April 17, 2009

Raining Day...

Haven't had the time to sit down and relax for a while... Last night, I promised myself to just do nothing on my day off, Spring rain is always wonderful... it's cleanses the dust accumulated from last year, wash away the dirt and stagnant energy.



Today is a special day, with a cup of hot chai with Jane Moheit's CD... the raining day breath something new into my life. As if all the unhappiness and dissappointment were never there in a first place. Michael was rubbing my leg... I gave him a pet on his head, to hear him purr and tail hang up high, I know he's a happy cat. it's amazing how this rain can make me feel so wonderful.
I'm never satisfy with my own yard work... where's the art and beauty in it - does it really require a lot of money? but for sure, at the beginning I've spent plenty of time trying to straighten up everything. Now, I'm 1/2 retire from it, coz I've found a part-time servant from home :P not exactly, he does complaints a lot though... -___-" But I see something different today, a new energy, something fresh is budding! some of them bloom incredibly, especially the lavender... the flower buds are everywhere~ atriums are growing! cone flower came back after winter.



This is not a gloomy raining day... it smells fresh, and I know all is going well.. all is well..

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Deceived

There were times when I was so naive to the reality of this capitalism. I thought I was smart with a master degree. I was so wrong. I don't know how to observe and react to people who have bad intention. Ideally people should treat everybody with respect and truthfulness. How could a person always has bad ideas in his/her mind? I am totally disgusted if I find out my friend who likes to use me. It hurts my feeling for being stupid of knowing him/her for that long. As for a stranger who deceives me, I will blame myself for being naive and greedy. Greed is a devil who is always around me. There are people who like to take advantage of somebody. They come out with idea to lure "naive and greedy" person into the trap. From the experience, I should be careful in the future and knowing how to say "NO" to reject these liars. Or at least, I need to stand strong on my ground and never give in.

-Fui

Quote:
There is enough in the world for everyone's need, but not enough for everyone's greed. Author: Frank Buchman

Sunday, April 5, 2009

Michael was sick...

Michael's got sick during our 7-days trip to Arizona. We found out that he's got diarrhea when cleaning up its stool. However, his appetite are still good. We took him to the vet when his stool smell really bad and messed up the floor. He didn't get any better after his 1st visit from vet, he has lost the appetite and started to vomit. 2nd visit still didn't get any better after noticing his constipation problem. It lasted for 4 days that he didn't eat much, no stool, and he didn't respond positively to any medication. He is getting skinner and he lost about 1.5lbs. It worried us as Michael didn't react to any of his favorite Petromalt or catnip. He totally lost the sense of taste. In the end, the vet fed him with canned food and he ate a lot. We fed him one canned food in the night and he finished it. The next day, he stopped eating again. Why ? He's got stomach full of food that he can't digest and he's having nausea. Sze Min looked up websites trying to figure out what to do to help Michael. She bought a herbal product that would cure diarrhea. We fed him that and he threw up immediately. He felt much better since then and we fed him canned food a little bit every couple of hours. His appetite returns to normal. Since then Michael has returned to his normal routine to eat, play, meow and poo. Even though we were worried and spent $$$ on the medication, we learned how much responsibility if Michael was our own child. The mental and emotion of being a parent requires a lot more passions and experience. We are not trained to become a parent and would never learn it well until we experience it one day. The lesson learn is to face the problem positively, look into it patiently, understand it thoroughly, and react to it passionately. The outcome is out of your control but the least we can do is to try the best you can, never blame for anything in the later time. Experience will help fine tune ones skill.

-Fui

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Break

Economic downturn impacted majority of people with unprecedented dismay. I felt the punch quite deeply. My recovery is slow but showing progress. I have learnt the lessons and I'm ready to give it another shot. Besides that, the company annouced mandory 10 days off in March which I have been looking forward to getting a break. We're planning to go to Arizona & NM while Sze Min is taking a one-day class there. I am happy that she is excited for the class.
The break has started with a busy weekend with a friend visiting in town, visitting Nasher Sculture Center and DMA. A hottub retreat was prepared by Sze Min the following day. The stress level has gone down so much and surprisingly I have no problem go to bed and wake up early. My sleeping habit is changed in opposite way during the working days. I felt so much compulsion to go to work with dragging feet. I still work smart and hard as being a responsible employee but the inner side of me shows unhappiness and tense. The truly self of me likes to work in intellectual field, exchange idea/finding with one/two colleagues frequently, research idea innovatively, and am able to schedule my time in good pace. I have no problem to work hard and stay up in long working hour. In the contrary, I do not like to work as being instructed in daily basis and working for somebody who is lack of technical/management skill. I usually look up on somebody who is more knowledgeable and despise person who is lazy and like kissing ass. I have experienced many different occasions. I still learn to read people and discover my potential. The above observations have been clear to me only when I am in stress-free level during writing session.
This is the second day of my break, I sense many good things lying ahead of me. I know my 2nd brother is expecting a baby today, the stock in pre-market session is looking good on financial institution and I have a long day to indulge myself with good food, sport and reading materials...

-Fui

Saturday, February 28, 2009

24 hours after Raphael left the house

After Star adopted Raphael and left, the house became so calm and quiet. We immediately did a clean-up on the floor and carpet which he pooed and peed. the house smelt so good now and I am very relieved. I miss Raphael but I just couldn't stand him messing up the house. On the other hand, Michael was curious and cautious to walk around the house and looking for Raphael. He felt more relaxed after he didn't see Raphael and its tail stood upright wagging. He kept on searching and sniffing at each corner of the house and finally settled down knowing Raphael was gone. He started to meow, chase after the toy and eat comfortably. We're happy that Michael has become the old cat we used to live with. We definitely miss Raphael for the destiny to be with us. He let us touch, brush and clean him. The most important reason I like him is its playful enthustic. He is a very nice cat. As for Michael, we enjoy his company for all these years...We still think he's just like the main character in Michael's comic book. Cute, adventurous and coward. smile...

-Fui